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22
Jan

Water & Soft Drinks

This is the time of year we all make set goals to make changes in our lives. Sometimes the goals are big and bold, like trying to find a new job.  Sometimes they are small, but still important, like promising yourself you will finally clean out that closet.

I have personal and professional goals for this coming year and one of them includes you! My goal is to write a bi-weekly blog about nutrition and lifestyle issues.  I get asked a lot of questions when I am lecturing or spending time with friends and I know, from personal experience, the information out there can be VERY confusing, contradictory and controversial!

I want to help you sort through the information so that you can make healthy choices for yourself and your loved ones.

I need your help, too.  If you have a specific question you’d like answered, please email me at nutrition@freshstartmind.com and I will find the answer and write the blog for you. I want this to be a dialogue and I want us to have some fun together.

Here are some of the topics I already have planned:

Which is better, butter or margarine?

What’s the difference between sea salt and table salt?

What’s a GMO?

You get the idea…

Today’s Nutrition Question:

Can soft drinks count towards my daily water intake?

When I talk about water, most people begin to glaze over a bit.  Everyone knows they need to drink water, right?

But did you know these benefits?

Preventing Brain Damage

The brain is 85% water.  Even a 1% decrease can cause the brain to not function properly

Depression

Hydration helps the body to manufacture serotonin a neurotransmitter that helps with mood regulation. Serotonin helps you feel calm and happy.

Sleep disorders

Helps with the manufacturing of melatonin which helps us fall asleep.

Lack of energy

Water helps manufacture electrical and magnetic energy giving us a boost.

Attention deficit

A hydrated brain is energized and can imprint new information better.

Soft drinks on the other hand, do not have any nutritional value.  Technically, since we are all different, some people could drink a soft drink and it might hydrate while others would be dehydrated from a soft drink.

Consider these facts:

Chemicals

If you drink a soft drink made with artificial sweeteners, you are drinking chemicals that change into other chemicals in your body.  For many people, this causes health issues including headaches, muscle twitching or hormonal blips.

Sugar

An 8 ounce can of soft drink has ten teaspoons worth of sugar which can be disastrous for your insulin-blood sugar cycle AND be a contributor to those stubborn pounds you can’t seem to get rid of.

Bone Health

Did you know the phosphorous in the soft drinks leaches calcium from your bones?

You decide: Choose to drink water, which is a chemical-free nutrient that your body recognizes and needs or choose to drink a soft drink that is a chemical soup and nutrient depleting.

Recipe for SPA water

Fill container with water (filtered if you’ve got it)

Slice cucumbers and lemons

Add to water and let soak for several or more hours.

Enjoy!

 

Reference

http://www.health-benefit-of-water.com/benefit-of-drinking-water.html

19
Dec

A Healthy Snack for the Holidays

Tis the Season to Eat, Drink, and be Merry! For many of us, that means adding 2-10 pounds that we then have to work off as soon as January 2nd rolls around. The eating may be fun and taste great but the tight clothes, frustration, shame and guilt are no picnic!

One of the tricks that I have learned for managing my weight year round is to be prepared. That means when someone asks you to bring something, be sure to bring a healthy food that you will eat. That way, you know there will be at least one item at the dinner or party that you will be comfortable enjoying.

For Thanksgiving, my family went  to the beach. There is a lot of walking, biking, running and eating! My sister made these amazing snacks and I wanted to share them with you. I do not know who the original creator is but I do know they are healthy, yummy, and they will disappear very quickly!

I hope you enjoy them. They’re good to keep around the house year round.
No-Bake Energy Bites Recipe

Ingredients:

1 cup (dry) oatmeal
2/3 cup toasted coconut flakes
1/2 cup peanut butter or sunbutter
1/2 cup ground flaxseed or wheat germ
1/2 cup chocolate chips (optional)
1/3 cup honey
1 tsp. vanilla

Method:

Stir all ingredients together in a medium bowl until thoroughly mixed.
Let chill in the refrigerator for half an hour. Once chilled, roll
into balls of whatever size you would like. Store in an airtight container and keep refrigerated for
up to 1 week.

Makes about 20-25 balls.
I’d like to wish you and your loved ones a wonderful holiday season.  Whatever holiday you celebrate, I hope it is full of joy, laughter and good food! 
P.S.  The holidays can be emotional on many levels-some good, some challenging. If you’d like to have someone to help you navigate the holidays please contact me at nutrition@freshstartmind.com

20
Nov

Attaining Wisdom

I grew up in an extremely unhealthy family. It’s taken years to recover from the damage I incurred. In my journey towards wellness, I discovered a wonderful book in the Bible. This book has transform my foolish thinking. The book is called Proverbs. It has revealed wisdom for daily living.

Proverbs is called the Book of Wisdom. I try to read it daily. There are 31 chapters. I read a chapter corresponding to the day of the week. Every month, I recycle through this Book of Wisdom.

Looking for a fresh start? Give this a try. The results will be worth your effort. You will attain wisdom in your journey toward wellness.

Proverbs 1:1-3 “Proverbs written for attaining wisdom and instruction, for understanding words of insight; for acquiring a disciplined and prudent life, doing what is right, just and fair.”

 

8
Mar

Quality Time with Your Man

If life is just a song, then our relationships are the dance that goes along with it. The trouble is, while women want their men to lead, some of them simply have “two left feet.” While some men are natural leaders, others suffer greatly when attempting to lead in the “quality time” department. I’ve seen several couples as a licensed professional counselor, and for most of them, the women had no problems communicating their needs via face to face exchanges, telephone conversations, via text, and any other way one can think to communicate. The problem is, their communication efforts were usually not reciprocated. I do imagine that some of the men in those particular relationships may have been resistant, but for many, they just weren’t motivated. What motivates a man to call, text, and make his woman a priority?

Before I give you 5 tips for creating an environment of healthy quality time, I’ll first tell you what does not motivate men. I’ve spoken about it several times in prior posts; nagging!

In my professional opinion, the most likely method to ensure that a man does nothing to change is to nag him. Nagging is just counter-productive and demeaning. I suggest women use the 5 steps instead:

1. Take self inventory. I often stress the concept of knowing thyself and this is essential here. We often want things in relationships that we don’t personally give. Many women want more time and attention from their men, but healthy and positive attention is not something that the women may offer.

2. Model the love you want. The law of attraction is paramount here; to get more love, women should display more love. The idea is to model exactly what you prefer to receive, but refrain from nagging before he has a chance to exhibit his love to you. Some women exclude themselves from getting positive attention from their men because of their own negative attitudes.

3. Assume that your partner does not read minds. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a respectful face to face dialogue session about expectations. I do believe that partners should check in often about their individual and collective goals for the relationship. This should take place at an agreed upon time with as little interruptions as possible. Even this “expectation talk” sets the tone for the need for uninterrupted quality time in the relationship.

4. Notice his efforts. I have a saying that “all progress is progress.” Comment on the fact that he is making an effort and this will in turn motivate him to continue to do those things that are important to you. When a woman shows a man that she respects him, as evidenced by her willingness to follow, she gives him the freedom to lead in his own way. The more respect he gets, the more love he will display.

5. Remember that relationships take time to build, then re-build. If you keep this in mind, your relationship will not go stagnate, because you are always looking for ways to add zest to the partnership. Since it is a partnership, it is important to remember that things always flow easier when the two parties are facing the same direction-towards a positive future.

 

10
Feb

What’s Your Parenting Style?

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Promoting the self-discipline and self-esteem of one’s children 0ften requires an emotional juggling act by parents. It is not easy to be firm and demanding one minute, then warm and affectionate the next. In addition, some adults naturally have personalities or temperaments that predispose them toward one parenting style or the other.

Authoritarian Parenting 
Parents who tend to overemphasize the discipline side of the equation are referred to as authoritarian. Authoritarian parents are demanding in the worst sense of the word. They are intimidators, requiring obedience and respect above all else. They become overly angry and forceful when they don’t get that obedience and respect. Their love and acceptance appear totally conditional to the child. They do not listen to their kids or explain the reason for their expectations, which are frequently unrealistic. They often see their children’s individuality and independence as irrelevant or threatening

Research has shown that authoritarian parents tend to produce children who are more withdrawn, anxious, mistrustful and discontented. These children are often overlooked by their peers. Their self-esteem is often poor.

Permissive Parenting 
Parents who overemphasize the self-esteem side of the equation are referred to as permissive. They may be warm and supportive, but they are not good disciplinarians. They make only weak demands for good behavior and they tend to avoid or ignore obnoxious behavior. They seem to believe that children should grow up without any anger, tears or frustrations. They reinforce demanding and inconsiderate behavior from their children. Their love and acceptance are “unconditional” in the worst sense of the word, for they set few limits on what their children do.

Research has shown that permissive parents tend to produce children who are more immature, demanding and dependent. These children are often rejected by their peers. Their self-esteem is often unrealistic and hard to interpret, for they often blame others for their misfortunes.

The Authoritative Parenting Model 
Parents who are able to provide for both the discipline and self-esteem needs of their youngsters are referred to as authoritative. They clearly communicate high—but not unrealistic—demands for their children’s behavior. They expect good things from their kids and reinforce those things when they occur. When kids act up, on the other hand, authoritative parents respond with firm limits, but without fits of temper. They are warm, reasonable and sensitive to a child’s needs. They are supportive of a child’s individuality and encourage growing independence.

Another Quick Tip: Tantrums!!  When your child throws a tantrum, what is the first thing you should do? Disengage immediately. No talk, no emotion, no eye contact. Why? Because you are the audience for the tantrum, the target of their anger, and the power that can grant them their frustrated wish. Courage!  [This may seem daunting at first or, for some parents, impossible to carry out given their own physical, mental, and/or spiritual weaknesses…..contact Dr. Jones today for consultation or quality referrals for additional help and support for you and your child!]

Source: 1-2-3 Magic Parenting Newsletter © 2014

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